my post on mark's blogg, unedited and pasted here:

yesterday was tiring but not too bad. after such an eccentric friday night, from the chalet visit with Gerald [my childhood best friend] to walking around my neighbourhood with this obsessively, overly emotional guy, i woke up at noon on saturday feeling a tad bit more refreshed. due to my early working hours, i have been getting out of bed at 4,5 am each morning and only catching 3-5 hrs of sleep per night. been sick because of it all.

spent the whole arvo slacking at home and was msg-ing mark and baby J to see what was going on on a saturday. since mark and i have been unwell (and i learnt that so is baby J), mark and i decided to meet up at PS to get liang teh for all of us. we
met up with anthony at PS briefly and after getting the necessities, we went to look for baby J, who was working then. i think he was pretty pleased to see us and appreciative of the liang teh.

we were at newurbanmale (NUM) @ citylink and i managed to get the rainbow dog for mark. one of my lil gifts to him as an token of appreciation and care. mark seemed pleased with the purchase and placed the pooch on his shoulder for the rest of the day. the only time i "confiscated" it was when we entered ynot and i placed the pooch into my bag for storage. we decided to name the pooch "happy". i reckon corny as it might sound, it is indeed a very apt name for the pooch.

after NUM, we headed to TP to meet one of mark's friends, alvin for dinner. we were caught in the rain and hence headed to alvin's house for a quick clothes change. i wore my pink "this tee looks best on your bedroom floor" NUM tee and mark wore his "cockteaser" tee. hell cute!! we went for a satisfying dinner at a nearby coffee shop before heading to this pub, C U 29. we met up with alvin's friend, dave. a really cute guy. our type. he has this really huggable frame, droopy eyes with an
easy going smile and did i mention, he sings so fucking well? i was won over. completely. but he isn't in my jurisdiction!! why?? boo!

anywho. the pub is really quite cool. mark had a lychee martini but we both agree the lychee martini that we took at rohai's bday gathering thingy is much nicer. i had a mango margarita - not too bad. after a couple hours of singing (yes i did
sing, but after a few weeks of not practising, i reckon i did an embarrassing, not to mention abysmal, job of it all), i got quite edgy and bored. so i called baby J to ask him if he was coming down to join us. he said yeah, which got me really
pleased. mark joked that he reckons i'm more excited to see baby J than he is to see baby J. haha. i think so too - reason being i didn't know any of mark's other friends so having baby J helps. i really like him when we first saw him and
subsequent interactions with him has confirmed that he's a good guy.

baby J rang around 12.30 to say he was reaching ynot so i harrassed to leave C U 29. we headed down to ynot and met up with mark's other friends... cannot really remember all their names but there's terence, jack and chrono or something like
that. mark headed off to dance. baby J was driving so he didn't drink nor dance. so i stood by him. feeling hungry and a little congested inside ynot, we headed out for a spin to grab something to eat before making our way back. mark had a couple more drinks by then was a feeling abit oozy but nevertheless fine. suddenly the music stopped. for like more than 5 minutes i reckon and merrymakers were getting upset, started shouting on all. i found that part of the night a real put off. though i
didn't hang around much inside ynot, the only song i truly enjoyed was the remix of kylie minogue's red blooded woman. the rest of the mixes weren't just enough to get me pole dancing on the podium. currently craving for cheekymonkey's now! i'm a very bump & grind person. i love sensuality, over sexuality. in general, i can't say i preferred ynot to happy or vice versa. both serves to be chill out bars to me and i can spend more time with bro before i return back downunder, which is soon. =(

in the end, when the music started and everyone resumed their bump and grind, baby Jand i decided to wait outside, which was fine by me, we sat by the curb, with me looking utterly unglam. hahaha. i reckon that baby J was feeling quite tired, so he msged mark to ask if he was ready. after an exchange of smses, we suddenly heard a couple loud bangs, which seemed to resemble gun shots. scared the skins out of us. so we thought we better head back to the car, whereby he'll drive me to ynot to get my bag. after that, i went back in to drag mark out because he msged baby J to say he was ready to leave. that was about 3.30. baby J agreed to drop mark off first, so that the both of us can make sure he was fine and all, which i concluded he was. =)

in the end, i cabbed home because baby J wasn't sure his way home from mine. he was kind enough to wait for me to catch a cab before he headed home. wins brownie points with me. i couldn't have found someone better for mark. not in my capacity anyway. i really like baby J. but its all up to them anyways. i hope i can find someone who will treat me right one day, someone sweet and love me for who i am. so far, no such fortune. i can only wish.

nevertheless, i reached home arnd 4ish, exhausted. today is gonna be more chilled out i think, meeting hansel for dinner before watching some outdoor concert. the urge to go cheekymonkeys is great but no kakis. boo!

it's been rach, mark's sis updating!

"good girls go to heaven. bad girls go down under." - NUM

[* as a sideline. mark is right. if baby J was straight, he would have been perfectly suited for me. IF he was straight.]