last night went not too badly. initially, when crys and i got to church, we were like "why are there so many old people here? where's the youth?" but yeahs, we found out most of them are going tonight. nevertheless, i think it was a good experience for crys to go and we both took a little something away from the session and all.

after the session, tina suggested we shld go for coffee. since i bumped into new ah gong there, i decided to ask him along. and i couldn't have called a better shot. given that he use to be so close to ah ma (duh), it gave us a better opportunity to know him better.

so we had a really good chat at makan makan, this place frequented by curtin students until we were chased out when we closed. but we were so absorbed in our conversation we stood outside makan makan in the bitter cold (crys was underdressed) and chatted for a further one and a half hours until we realise *gasp* it's 2am!! new ah gong was so sweet, walking us 3 girls to our cars because he insisted "this is vic park area and 3 girls are never safe enough". definitely won brownie points with all of us.

when we got back, crys and i were chatting on msn about him. haha, i mean, who else can we talk about right?? although i think new ah gong is attracted to crys' "demure-ness" and pretty looks, somehow, she turned the convo into a discussion of me and new ah gong. so here is what i told her and now you people:

at first glance, he isn't the type i go for. he isn't very good looking (while neither am i so it doesn't matter) but he has a very quaint charm about him. if there's anyone who knows something about the guys i go for, it is that they have to mellow, while having a tinge of cheekiness, because i cannot tolerate flambuoyant guys nor extremely boring ones. and well, crys and i agreed he is definitely the mellow and laid back sort of guy, while retaining abit of humour in what he says. next i like the fact that he is very family-oriented, being close to his older sis and all. BUT, all this being said, i don't think there's chemistry on his side, nor my side. he'll make a really good friend. but..... that's it!!

he is a really really nice guy though. and given this is my first "official" outing with him, i do feel that sense of comfort in hanging out with him unlike most guys. but this probably just me good buddies. right G? friendship with the opposite sex, it so impt to be totally comfortable with one another.